Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Surprised, or not

It's what you learn after you know it all that counts. ~Attributed to Harry S Truman

You learn something every day if you pay attention. ~Ray LeBlond


I offer below a few research studies that boast findings where the outcome, in some cases, seems like a no-brainer and in others a little surprising. Enjoy a little intrigue. Maybe you'll be surprised, maybe not.

Five days a week, I l-ah–ah-ah-ah-ove you. *An NIH-funded study reveals: The people who ate chocolate the most frequently, despite eating more calories and exercising no differently from those who ate the least chocolate, tended to have lower B.M.I.’s. There was a difference of roughly five to seven pounds between subjects who ate five servings of chocolate a week and those who ate none, reports lead researcher Dr. Golomb. [Like I need any encouragement to enjoy chocolate.]

Too much I in me. *From an illustrative study published in 1983: Larry Scherwitz, then a psychologist at Baylor University, taped the conversations of nearly 600 men, a third of them with heart disease. Dr. Scherwitz counted how often the men used first-person pronouns — I, me, mine — and found that those who used them most often were most likely to have heart disease and, when followed for several years, most likely to suffer heart attacks. [Do you suppose this applies to female Dee? Note the avoidance of ‘me.’]

Stress accumulates. *A March 26, 2012 online PNAS article reports: Alzheimer’s disease is increasing at a startling rate in younger individuals, largely due to a processed and refined food diet, environmental factors, and long-term chronic stress. Researchers from the University of California, San Diego School of Medicine published the result of a study in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, explaining the mechanism behind continual exposure to stressors so common in our rapid-paced lifestyle. The unnatural accumulation of insoluble tau protein aggregates in brain tissue – neurofibrillary tangles – are one of the physical hallmark signs of Alzheimer's disease, and have been shown to contribute to disease progression in people under chronic stress conditions during the course of past studies. For more.

Who ya gonna call? *A fascinating new study of nearly two billion cell phone calls and almost half a billion text messages shows how our loyalties, as measured by phone communication, can shift over time. An international group of researchers (from Finland, Britain, Boston) obtained electronic communication records from 3.2 million customers of a mobile phone carrier in an unnamed European country, looking for patterns among 1.95 billion calls and 489 million text messages over a seven-month period, noting the age and gender of the participants. The two contacts each person called and texted most often were deemed to be their first and second "best friends."
Men appear to rely on female phone confidantes throughout their lives. But as women age, they tend to shift their phone affections away from men, spending more phone time with their adult daughters. See the full story, as reported in LA Times online,
“As Women Grow Older, Daughter Becomes the Favorite.” [Yes, Rebekah, I miss you!]

Jog your brain. *From a team of researchers led by Justin S. Rhodes, a psychology professor at the Beckman Institute for Advanced Science and Technology at the University of Illinois: using sophisticated technologies to examine the workings of individual neurons — and the makeup of brain matter itself — scientists have discovered that exercise appears to build a brain that resists physical shrinkage and enhance cognitive flexibility. Exercise, the latest neuroscience suggests, does more to bolster thinking than thinking does. Exercise seems to slow or reverse the brain’s physical decay (most of us, beginning in our late 20s, lose about 1 percent annually of the volume of the hippocampus, a key portion of the brain related to memory and certain types of learning). Additionally, scientists found that exercise jump-starts neurogenesis (the creation of new brain cells) in the hippocampi. For more, “How Exercise Could Lead to a Better Brain.” [I’m headed outside, in just a minute, to move more.]

Don’t worry, be open. *Researcher Barbara Fredrickson suggests: negative emotions narrow people’s attention and cognitions, positive emotions broaden attention and thinking. Over time, the expansive mindsets triggered by positive emotions help people to discover and build a variety of personal resources—psychological, cognitive, social and physical—which ultimately contribute to well being. (FYI, some of the everyday pleasant events known to elicit positive emotions are: helping, interacting with others, playing, learning, engaging in spiritual activity or meditation. Even looking at ‘happy’ images – like puppies, penguins, landscapes – induces a positive state and allows folks to have broader attention, see more connection to others, and be more creative.) [See Barbara Frederickson’s publications listing, or a short YouTube presentation “Positive Emotions Transform Us" or a longer one “Using Positivity to Bounce Back from Inevitable Setbacks”]

May you enjoy – learning daily - this May (which is nearly here!). May all things positive light your way and may you step into any opening: in health, in relationships, and in lovingkindness to yourself. Cheers, Dee


When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. -Helen Keller, author and lecturer (1880-1968)

The light in the eyes (of him or her whose heart is joyful) rejoices the heart of others, and good news nourishes the bones. Proverbs 15:30

A happy heart is a good medicine and a cheerful mind works healing. Proverbs 17:22 (Amplified)

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

Enjoy and influence

“A human being is part of a whole called by us the ‘Universe,’ a part limited in time and space.
We experience ourselves, our thoughts and feelings as something separate from the rest – a kind of optical delusion of consciousness.
This delusion is a kind of prison for us, restricting us to our personal desires and to affection for a few persons nearest us.
Our task must be to free ourselves from the prison by widening our circles of compassion to embrace all living creatures and the whole of nature in its beauty.”
– Albert Einstein


With spring continuing to open to us the wonders of new life – I offer a few words around the power and privilege of each of us for enjoyment and influence.

About enjoyment:

Let us remind ourselves to enjoy the spring’s unfolding beauty, which can remind us to enjoy all of the life we’ve been given. We can give greater attention to this present moment: enjoying its richness, loosening preoccupation with “self,” seeing and accepting things as they are, and even feeling gratitude for things as they are. I think of the directive-for-our-own-good in Scriptures: “…in everything give thanks…” I Thessalonians 5:18


In March I was privileged to attend a workshop presented by Ron Siegel who shared this definition of mindfulness: an awareness of present experience with acceptance. [I’ve spoken of mindfulness previously; for more, see below.**]

He shared that the mind is powerful enough to affect the body: for enjoyment or not, for good or ill. We know of the placebo effect where, when we think we’re being helped by some intervention, most of us consistently improve. Interestingly, Siegel shared the effectiveness of various placebos: two pills are more effective than one, a larger pill more than a smaller pill, an active placebo (one that mimics the common side effects of the drug under study) more effective than passive placebo (such as sugar pill), injections more than pills, and surgery most powerful of all.

At the Wikipedia entry for placebo (Latin word for “I shall please”) we read: “Those with Alzheimer’s disease lose the capacity to be influenced by placebos, and this is attributed to the loss of their prefrontal cortex dependent capacity to have expectations.[127] Children seem to have greater response than adults to placebos.[128]

Mindfulness and the placebo effect call me back to some keys to enjoyment: gentle expectation of benefit, and child-like openness to whatever is happening (possibly instead of “why ever is this happening?”).


About influence:

We can influence this moment – by choosing to be aware of what might be enjoyed (dwelling on what is true, honorable, just, pure, pleasing…” Philippians 4:8), and by accepting what IS in this day.

We can influence our world in positive ways by being kind and loving to ourselves and others. I appreciated the lovingkindness meditation practice at the workshop (you also are invited to experiment with mindfulness meditations at Siegel's mindfulness-solution web page; there's no cost to play or download the audio files) that consists of applying a compassionate approach first to self and extending it to others, by repeating --


“May I be happy, may I be peaceful, may I be free from suffering, may I be free from fear, may I let go (or, whatever phrases particularly resonate kindness for you)

May my loved ones be happy, peaceful, free from suffering…

May all beings be happy, peaceful, free from suffering…”

(This meditation has various names: a “metta” Buddist practice, a Christian prayer of “blessing,” good intentions, warm wishes.)


Mindfulness develops compassion for ourselves as we open to our own pain, as we see that everyone else also has pain, and as we see our interconnectedness. I find this idea most winsome, and it seems consistent with what I am leaning into in other areas (accepting my whole person rather than squashing my shadow self, to name just one) and consistent with others' writing. In his book “Prayer,” Frank Laubach wrote these words in 1946, “Every thought tends to become true in proportion as it is intense and as it is long dwelt upon. Thoughts result in deeds an

d deeds make history. Our thoughts leap across space and appear again in other minds, in proportion as they are intense and long dwelt upon. Thoughts are contagious. ‘What you whisper in secret,’ said Jesus, ‘shall be shouted from the housetops.’ Yes, even your thoughts shout, though others may not know it is you who are shouting!”

May we be influencing our moments and world as we shout lovingkindness to ourselves and each other. And may we find enjoyment in the beauty of this moment.

I close with some thoughts of poet Mary Oliver. May they aid us in seeing and enjoying the world’s wonders.


Why I Wake Early

Hello, sun in my face.

Hello, you who made the morning

and spread it over the fields

and into the faces of the tulips

and the nodding morning glories,

and into the windows of, even, the

miserable and the crotchety –

best preacher that ever was,

dear star, that just happens

to be where you are in the universe

to keep us from ever-darkness,

to ease us with warm touching,

to hold us in the great hands of light –

good morning, good morning, good morning.

Watch, now, how I start the day

in happiness, in kindness.

~ Mary Oliver ~ (Why I Wake Early, 2004)


** [There’s so much info available on the how-tos and benefits of mindfulness that it’s difficult to know where to begin. But here’s a few resources:

- http://www.mindfulnet.org/ claims to offer “everything you need to know about Mindfulness on one website”

- Jon Kabat-Zinn, originator with U Mass Medical School’s Mindfulness Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) programs has gobs of material and links here

- An article “Mindfulness Matters: Can Living in the Moment Improve Your Health?” includes a few doable suggestions at NIH News in Health

- Find a brief overview of research on the benefits of mindfulness at “Connecting bodymindsoulspirit" on my NaturallyYours web site; and can check out some of the posts on my blog: Oct 7, 2009 post addressed the topic of boosting immunity by monitoring our thinking, or this one on intentionality Aug 12, 2009 post]