Let me climb through the barriers of sound and pass into your silence;
Who are Life-Light-Love
Without beginning and without end,
The Lover who has bound heaven to earth in the birth of a Child.
the musings of a simple 'girl' that eats dirt and wants to grow wellness and wisdom
Arise, shine. For your light has come, and the glory of the Lord is risen upon you. –Isaiah 60:1
If the eyes that judge the dark and light see only moral metaphors,
All dark is bad, all light is good, and that’s the end of it.
But eyes that look for beauty too, for grace, and mystery, and peace,
Delight more in dawn’s dappled hour and choirs of stars at dusk
Than in the mid-day’s unrelenting glare.
It is not that they fear the light. They don’t; they love and need it.
It is that light has qualities as artists everywhere know well.
What quality of light surrounds the shepherds in their filed?
What light does Mother Mary need to know how she should love her child?
Why do the Magi travel gladly in the dark? Ah, see…It’s where the light they need is found.
Darkness is like silence: some is full of dread, But most gives up its threat
When just a single flame of light scatters its own qualities into the night.
The Light of All Creation is sweet music in the dark: Full of joy, brimming with life, bringing what is very god and scattering silence with a song.
God’s spirit is a burning wick the world cannot blow out.
Light of creation… scatter the darkness.
-poem, front cover, St. Olaf Christmas Festival program, 2009
Men become civilized, not in proportion to their willingness to believe, but in proportion to their readiness to doubt.
-H.L. Mencken, writer, editor, and critic (1880-1956)
The whole problem with the world is that fools and fanatics are always so certain of themselves, and wiser people so full of doubts.
-Bertrand Russell
Commandment Number One for any truly civilized society is this: Let people be different.
-David Grayson [pen name of Ray Stannard Baker], journalist, author (1870-1946)
There is great need for a sarcasm font.
I totally take back all those times I didn't want to nap when I was younger.
I'm always slightly terrified when I exit out of Word and it asks me if I want to save any changes to my document that I swear I did not make any changes to.
I hate leaving my house confident and looking good and then not seeing anyone of importance the entire day. What a waste.
Bad decisions make good stories.
Consider these stats about giving
*A fair amount of our giving in the US goes to the church and stays rather local.
“… 33.4% of estimated total giving, $103.32 billion, went to houses of worship and denominational organizations in 2007.” (USA Today Oct 2008)
“Only about 3 percent of money donated to churches and ministries went to aiding or ministering to non-Christians.” (Christianity Today, Dec 2008)
"Americans perceive that 70% of their 2006 donations went to religion, while 18% went to charities and other organizations, and 10% to educational institutions,” reports Sylvia Ronsvalle, of empty tomb, a Christian research organization based in Champaign, Il. (USA Today Oct 2008)
*We don’t give all that much away, at least not in monetary percentages.
Based on the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics Consumer Expenditure Survey, and calculated as a percentage of income after taxes... Southerners give 1.5% of their income, compared with 1.4% in the Midwest and West, and 0.7% in the Northeast. (USA Today Oct 2008) [Other surveys I’ve seen report giving at 2-3%, which is obviously more but not by much.]
*Some do give away their time, especially if asked to volunteer.
According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, about 60 million people performed some kind of volunteer work in 2007. Of this number women were more likely than men to volunteer, and individuals between 35-54 years old made up the largest group. (USDL stats website, 2008)
Many people don't seek out community involvement: of those who volunteer, 44 percent do so because someone asked them. People who volunteer early in life are much more likely to volunteer later in life, when the personal benefits are particularly acute. Volunteerism is also especially beneficial to men, urbanites, those with less income and in poorer health, and retirees. (Cornell News, 1998)
You might ask: How is giving about wellness?
To start, a snippet with some great quotes from an extensive and interesting article “It’s Good to be Good: Health and the Generous Heart” by Stephen G. Post:
Ralph Waldo Emerson, in his famous essay on the topic of compensation, wrote, “It is one of the most beautiful compensations of this life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself….” The 16th-century Hindu poet Tulsidas, as translated by Mohandas K. Gandhi, wrote, “This and this alone is true religion – to serve others. This is sin above all other sin – to harm others. In service to others is happiness. In selfishness is misery and pain.”
The 9th-century sage Shantideva wrote, “All the joy the world contains has come through wishing the happiness of others.” Proverbs 11:15 reads, “those who refresh others will be refreshed”…
One of the healthiest things a person can do is to step back from self-preoccupation and self-worry, as well
Let’s explore some benefits of giving by looking at a few studies (note: find full citations at end of this blog entry).
*Improved health and increase in endorphin "high"
Allen Luks, in a survey of over 3,000 volunteers across the United States, found that people who helped other people consistently reported better health than peers in their age group, and many stated that this health improvement began when they started to volunteer. Helpers report a distinct physical sensation associated with helping; about half report that they experienced a "high" feeling, 43 percent felt stronger and more energetic, 28 percent felt warm, 22 percent felt calmer and less depressed, 21 percent experienced greater feelings of self-worth, and 13 percent experienced fewer aches and pains. (Luks, 1988)
In their book, The Healing Power of Doing Good, Allan Luks and Peggy Payne report that the euphoric sensation of the volunteers returned when they remembered the action of helping others. 90% of the group Luks studied reported that volunteering acted as an antidote to stress, chronic pain, and even insomnia. (Luks, 1991)
*Longer life and better physical functioning
In one study that began in 1956, 427 wives and mothers who lived in upstate New York were followed for 30 years by researchers at Cornell University. The researchers were able to conclude that regardless of number of children, marital status, occupation, education, or social class, those women who engaged in volunteer work to help other people at least once a week lived longer and had better physical functioning, even after adjusting for baseline health status. (Moen, et al., 1989)
In a large prospective study using a longitudinal survey of older adults, after adjusting for multiple covariables, the researchers found a significant association between high volunteerism and decreased mortality rate that remained after correction for health status, resulting in an overall 44% reduction in mortality. (Oman, et al. 1999)
*Heightened happiness, life-satisfaction, and self-esteem
Peggy Thoits used data from the Americans’ Changing Lives Survey and found – in the 3,617 respondents divided into two groups of those that volunteered and those who did not – that “people who were in better physical and mental health were more likely to volunteer, and conversely that volunteer work was good for both mental and physical health. People of all ages who volunteered in 1986 reported in 1989 that they had higher levels of happiness, life-satisfaction, self-esteem, physical health, and lower rates of depression than non-volunteers. (Thoits and Hewitt, 2001)
*Enhancement of positive social behaviors in adolescence
Volunteering in adolescence prevents teen pregnancy and academic failure, enhances social competence and self-esteem, and protects against anti-social behaviors and substance abuse. (Allen, et al., 1997)
*Decrease in chronic pain, disability, and depression
Individuals suffering from chronic pain experienced decreased pain intensity, levels of disability, and depression when they began to serve as peer volunteers for others suffering from chronic pain. The researchers note that the participants reported themes of “making a connection” and having “a sense of purpose” when volunteering. (Arnstein, et al., 2002)
Research on volunteering and depression conducted from 1986 to 1994 with 3,617 adults aged 25 years and older assessed depression using a self-report scale. Consistent volunteering was associated with reduced depression in all age groups, and particularly in those aged 65 or older. (Musick & Wilson, 2003)
*Increase in euphoria
In a small study of 19 subjects, the functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) revealed that making a donation activated the mesolimbic pathway, the brain’s reward center, that is responsible for dopamine-mediated euphoria. (Moll, et al., 2006)
*Increase in immune function
Even simply thinking about giving has a physiological effect. In a 1980s study by David McClelland at Harvard it was discovered that Harvard students who were asked to watch a film about Mother Teresa’s work tending to Calcutta’s orphans, showed significant increases in the saliva level of immunoglobin A – a protective antibody, one of the body’s first defenses against the common cold virus – compared with those watching a neutral film (study size 132). This increase was found even among those who purported to dislike Mother Teresa, and the levels remained high for an hour after the film in those subjects who were asked to focus their minds on times when they had loved or been loved. (McClelland, et al., 1988)
Above is a small sampling; there are many more associations between better health and giving. This email is already long so I’ll stop with the list. Certainly there are good reasons to give: benefits for body, soul, and spirit!
A few thoughts on and ideas for giving
Recent experiences have caused me to think more about giving monetarily to some additional different causes: to places farther away and deeper in need than many of us in the US. I’m appreciating daughter Rebekah’s occasional practical suggestions for addressing some of the world’s need (see her blog post dated Fri, Nov 13, 2009) I’m thinking I’ll use each 1st Wed wellness email as a reminder to go online and send off a contribution in support of clean water or other basic needs for those wanting.
Giving can bring joy – to the recipients and to the giver! My personal take on the underlying reason for us benefiting from giving is that we are participating in the activity and love of God
who gives freely - "He who did not spare His own Son, but delivered Him over for us all, how will He not also with Him freely give us all things?" Romans 8:32; and who
who reminds us of the good in giving by these words “it is more blessed to give than to receive…” Acts 20:35;
who reminds us by Jesus’ example
- in leaving God form to come to us in human form, even as a dependent baby - “who, although He existed in the form of God, did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men…" Philippians 2:6-7; and
- in giving his life for us “walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us.” Ephesians 5:2.
Might we all give to benefit both ourselves and others, give with abandon, give to experience deep joy.
Tell those rich in this world's wealth to quit being so full of themselves and so obsessed with money, which is here today and gone tomorrow. Tell them to go after God, who piles on all the riches we could ever manage—to do good, to be rich in helping others, to be extravagantly generous. If they do that, they'll build a treasury that will last, gaining life that is truly life.
– I Timothy 6:17-19 The Message paraphrase
Sources Cited:
Allen, J.P., Philliber, S, Herrling, S., & Kuperminc, G.P. (1997). Preventing teen pregnancy and academic failure: Experimental evaluation of a developmentally based approach. Child Development, 68, 729-742.
Arnstein P, Vidal M, Wells-Federman C, et al. From chronic pain patient to peer: benefits and risks of volunteering. Pain Management Nursing. 2002;3:94-103.
Luks, A. (1988, October). “Helper’s high: Volunteering makes people feel good, physically and emotionally.” Psychology Today, 22(10), 34-42.
Luks, A. (1991). The healing power of doing good: The health and spiritual benefits of helping others. New York: Fawcett Columbine.
McClelland, D., McClelland, D.C., & Kirchnit, C. (1988). The effect of motivational arousal through films on salivary immunoglobulin A. Psychology and Health, 2, 31-52.
Moen, P., Dempster-McClain, D., & Williams, R.M. (1989). Social integration and longevity: An event history analysis of women’s roles and resilience. American Sociological Review, 54, 635-647.
Moll, J., Krueger, F., Zahn, R., Pardini, M., Oliveiri-Souza, R., & Grafman, J. (2006). Human fronto-mesolimbic networks guide decisions about charitable donation. Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences, 103(42), 15623-15628.
Musick, M.A., & Wilson, J. (2003). Volunteering and depression: The role of psychological and social resources in different age groups. Social Science & Medicine, 56(2), 259-269.
Oman, D., Thoresen, E., & McMahon, K. (1999). Volunteerism and mortality among the community-dwelling elderly. Journal of Health Psychology, 4, 301-316.
Saroglou, V., Pichon., I., Trompette, L., Verschueren, M., & Dernelle, R. (2005). Prosocial behavior and religion: New evidence based on projective measures and peer ratings. Journal for the Scientific Study of Religion, 44(3), 323-348.
Thoits PA, Hewitt LN. Volunteer work and well-being. Journal of Health and Social Behavior. 2001;42(2):115-131.
He has showed you, O wo/man, what is good.
And what does the LORD require of you?
To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God. - Micah 6:8
We've all got both light and dark inside us. What matters is the part we choose to act on. That's who we really are.
-J.K. Rowling, author (b. 1965)
- Julian of Norwich
Rend your heart and not your garments. Return to the LORD your God, for he is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and abounding in love...
– Joel 2:13a
Lately my prayers have been less wordy. Many of these ideas of Jean-Nicholas Grou (Jesuit priest, 1730-1803) in his writing How to Pray are resonating with me.
“Since prayer is a supernatural act, we must earnestly ask God to produce it in us, and then we must perform it tranquilly under his guidance…As St. Augustine says, God is closer to us than we are to ourselves. Know this is the essence of prayer. The posture of our body and the words we use have no significance in themselves and are only pleasing to God as they express the feelings of the heart. For it is the heart that prays, it is to the voice of the heart that God listens, and it is the heart that he answers…and it is through the heart that he enlightens the mind…
You ask me what this voice of the heart is. It is love which is the voice of the heart. Love God and you will always be speaking to him….God reads the secrets of the heart. God reads its most intimate feelings, even those which we are not aware of.”
Above all else, guard your heart, for it is the wellspring of life. –Proverbs 4:23
To love God with all your heart, with all your understanding and with all your strength, and to love your neighbor as yourself is more important than all burnt offerings and sacrifices. – Mark 12:33
It’s often easy to forget, and even easier to forget as I age. One area of forgetfulness for me is around how good I’ve got it; it is easy to take for granted all the comforts and good stuff of life.
I recently returned from a trip to Central America that was an informative mix of both plenty and sparse. We met and talked with daughter Rebekah’s coworkers and friends, ate dinner with a Managuan family, stayed a day at an ocean-side resort, and enjoyed the natural beauty of a crater lake and natural reserve area. In Nicaragua we saw much need among the people. It’s difficult to understand why some have so much and others so little. Seeing the “so little” gives sharp contrast to my “so much” and urges me to share my abundance. Certainly too it propels me toward greater gratitude.
Cultivating greater gratitude is a good thing. Robert Emmons (PhD, author, psychology professor and researcher at University of California, Davis) reminds us of some ways that gratitude does a body good:
- "Grateful people take better care of themselves and engage in more protective health behaviors like regular exercise, a healthy diet, regular physical examinations.”
- "Gratitude research is beginning to suggest that feelings of thankfulness have tremendous positive value in helping people cope with daily problems, especially stress."
"The benefits of gratitude come from the long-term cultivation of the disposition of gratefulness through dedicated practice," writes Emmons in THANKS!: How The New Science of Gratitude Can Make You Happier (2007). “Gratitude is literally one of the few things that can measurably change peoples’ lives.”
Below are few suggestions to practice gratitude from webmd. (I’ve said some of this before – it’s certainly not new news – but concepts we may need to remind ourselves of.)
…give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus. I Thessalonians 5:18
Gratitude is born in hearts that take time to count up past mercies. – Charles Jefferson
“I cannot tell you anything that, in a few minutes, will tell you how to be rich. But I can tell you how to feel rich, which is far better, let me tell you firsthand, than being rich. Be grateful….It’s the only totally reliable get-rich-quick scheme.” – Ben Stein (actor, comedian, economist)
“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all others.” – Cicero (Roman author, orator, and politician, 106 BC-43 BC)
“Gratitude implies humility – a recognition that we could not be who we are or where we are in life without the contributions of others… a knowing awareness that we are the recipients of goodness.” – Robert Emmons
Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good; his love endures forever. I Chronicles 16:34, Psalm 106:1, Psalm 107:1, Psalm 118:1 and 29, Psalm 136:1
- Daniel G. Amen, The Brain in Love, p 54.
“Delicious autumn! My very soul is wedded to it, and if I were a bird I would fly about the earth seeking the successive autumns.” George Eliot
People’s Prayer
by Rebekah’s Central American professor
Forgive our giving up, our fixation on being
comfortable and powerful...
Forgive our inability to see beyond our street and experience,
thereby denying the lives lived by others
and denying the power and complexity that is you.
We have trespassed on your fullness,
your design, your sacred spaces.
Your voice cries in pain with ours,
will not remain Silent in the
face of injustice, will not let violence strip
Love from Life.
For you are the Creatrix,
the season-changer, the maker of snow,
the center of hope, a Spectrum of Aliveness.
My family and many of my friends know that I like dirt. So I was immediately intrigued by a book titled Why Dirt is Good: 5 Ways to Make Germs Your Friends. Author Mary Ruebush, PhD and microbiology/immunology instructor for Kaplan Medical, asserts that exposure to dirt – with dirt described in her words as, “soil, because humus, the organic part of soil, is crammed with bacteria, fungi, protozoa, and even viruses…also means all the other germ-laden things we normally encounter, such as raw foods, and all the germ-laden places we go” – is good for you. She explains, “More formally, “dirt is good for you” is called the hygiene hypothesis. This idea has been around since the 1980s, when doctors and researchers noticed a huge surge in the number of kids being diagnosed with asthma, food allergies, and even type I diabetes. At the same time, they noticed a general increase in irritable bowel disease and autoimmune diseases such as multiple sclerosis and rheumatoid arthritis. The hygiene hypothesis ties our modern obsession with cleanliness, along with our increasing tendency to stay indoors in a relatively germ-free and parasite-free environment, to the increase in health problems. When your immune system doesn’t get the sort of constant stimulation it has evolved to expect, it doesn’t function well. It may get hyperactive and confused. That’s when your immune system starts mistaking harmless pollen or food proteins for dangerous invaders, causing allergies, or mistaking your body’s own cells for invaders, causing autoimmune diseases…There is increasing evidence that normal, everyday infections in our youth may prevent the onset of autoimmune disease." (Follow this link for a brief cbsnews online article and book excerpt.)
Not-so-good germs
So I’m wondering, if exposure to microorganisms is good for us, why all this fuss around H1N1? Don’t we regularly have seasonal flu outbreaks? Is this one so different? Since I’ve had these questions I did some reading; here’s some gleanings from that. Please do correct or update me with whatever you know or if different.
The CDC (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) says:
“The information analyzed by CDC supports the conclusion that 2009 H1N1 flu has caused greater disease burden in people younger than 25 years of age than older people.”
Hospitalizations and deaths have occurred, though from what I read, seemingly just slightly, in larger numbers. Numbers of visits for ILIs (Influenza-like Illness, note this includes more than H1N1) have risen more and sooner in the season. (A table that graphs incidence is at left, or at CDC online current to Sept 26, wk 38 – red line is for 2008-09)
Certainly the hype has toned down since some months ago: the suggestion for staying at home went from 7 days to 24 hours after the fever is gone, and no longer is this viral outbreak being always alluded to as pandemic (numbers “indicate that the amount of disease is about what we would expect for a severe influenza season and not at the levels of the pandemics from 1918 or 1957” – CDC web site).
Most of us have heard the recommendations numerous times (cover your nose and mouth when cough or sneeze, wash your hands for 15-20 seconds, get the vaccination, avoid contact with sick or exposing your sick self to others). We’ve heard about the symptoms. [But just in case you need the list again: “The symptoms of 2009 H1N1 flu virus in people include fever, cough, sore throat, runny or stuffy nose, body aches, headache, chills and fatigue. Some people may have vomiting and diarrhea.” - CDC]
Thankfully much of the medical community has caught on by now to recommend NOT using antibacterial products – antibacterial products promote development of supergerms and are rarely effective; “hospital studies have shown that antibacterial alcohol wipes don’t so much kill germs as just spread them around,” says Ruebush in "Why Dirt is Good."
What our body does with these germs
Back to some talk about immunity. Because we “may be able to infect others from 1 day before getting sick to 5 to 7 days after” (cdc.gov) it’s likely most of us will have some exposure to viruses this flu season. Some of us don’t get sick because our immune systems kick in quickly, or for whatever reason we are able to stop the virus before we feel sick. Let’s talk about immune system boosters (check out this webmd article for more on boosters as well as on immune system busters):
1. Get regular exercise: increasing your heart rate for even just 20 minutes three times a week is associated with increased immune function; regular exercise increases the level of leukocytes (white blood cells that destroy foreign microorganisms).
2. Eat more antioxidants: consuming a diet rich in antioxidant vitamins boosts immunity by neutralizing free radicals that damage cells (which can increase susceptibility to harmful germs). Top antioxidants include vitamins C and E, zinc, chicken soup ‘-). Possibly your mother has said it before: eat a variety of highly colored fruits and vegetables, beans, nuts, and whole grains. Maybe you’ll want to check this top 20 list of foods from a USDA study.
3. Get adequate sleep: getting 7 to 9 hours (an “adequate” amount for most folks) is linked to boosted immune function. Researchers aren’t sure just how, but it’s possibly that a lack of sleep can cause a rise in inflammation and an increase in the stress hormone cortisol. An experiment (Spiegel, K. Impact of sleep debt on metabolic and endocrine function. The Journal of the American Medical Association, Sept. 25, 2002; vol 288: no 12, pp 1471-1472) with U of Chicago students who were limited to only 4 hrs of sleep a night for 6 nights found that after given a flu vaccine, their immune systems produced only half the normal number of antibodies.
4. Practice relaxation: learning techniques to help you reduce stress can help you sleep better, and can lower levels of cortisol. One small study found the people who meditated over an 8-week period produced more antibodies to a flu vaccine than people who didn’t meditate; and still showed an increased immune system response four months later.
5. Laugh: laughing decreases levels of stress hormones while increasing a type of white blood cells. Even merely anticipating funny helps. A study – of a group of men who were told three days in advance they’d be watching a funny video – observed stress hormone levels drop and endorphin and growth hormone levels rise (both benefit the immune system).